Emotional Maturity in the Light of Synodality: Contributions from Internal Family System Therapy

Abstract

The author brings to light that the synodal mindset that is demanded by the synod on synodality demands the adequate development of emotional maturity, especially in relationships. To genuinely consider differing viewpoints, collaborate with the laity on an equal basis, and refrain from succumbing to clericalism, it is essential to address attachment wounds first. The author proposes that the Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy approach can help heal relational wounds through inner work. This can have positive repercussions with the development of emotional skills required to develop this new mindset. It examines similarities between the IFS way of dealing with the inner world of the person and Synodal practices like listening, collaboration, and leadership in the outer world.